Guys are all excited by porn…
First, the world is made up of two different kinds of guys: Those who are turned on by porn and those who are really turned on by porn. If a guy tells you he’s impervious to smut, the truth is: For reasons moral, religious or masochistic he has chosen never to look at it; if he’s afraid of his own sexuality; or he’s lying. Not that they don’t have mixed feelings about it. Many guys admit they feel as weird about porn as women do – they know it’s stupid, often degrading to women, possibly disregarding to ourselves and other unnamed parties but it’s everywhere, and well, everybody can’t help but notice.

…And guys are even more excited by Internet porn
Today’s tech age makes it harder then ever not to see some naked ladies now and again. The Web eliminates the indignity – and the effort – of entering an adult bookstore or hollowing out the floorboards to hide the stuck-together pages of every guy’s “Juggs” collection from their wife or girlfriend. File-sharing sites make it even easier. When it’s just a keystroke away, temptation can be hard to resist.

Blame our inner jackasses
Most men have a sick sense of humor. In some cases, Internet porn isn’t so different from the weird e-mail pictures and Jokes we send each other (another guy thing). Guys look at it because incredible and gross and therefore irresistible to our inner doofus.

We’re still the guy you fell for…
So how do you know when you’re guy’s relationship with his laptop, psp, pc is a big nothing, and when it’s a big red flag? First, the two of you have to have an honest conversation about the role plays in his life: Those websites can be really disturbing for the side of women. Similarly, looking for occasional fun is less of a problem than falling asleep in front of a screen flashing GIRLS! GIRLS! GIRLS! night after night. But if whatever he’s doing makes you feel uncomfortable, he needs to show you he respects that, and curb his habit, no matter how mild it may be.

Remember, if he tells you he never looks at the stuff, he’s should be lying.