Do you have experience with chatting?

I am sure you have and ...

I have had them for many years until I started to find out about the patterns and then I decided to stop. My back-ground as Polarity therapist helped me very quickly to find a communication with many of them. Great and smart or unhappy and blaming women and men. So I started to give them new ways of looking into a matter which they had not expected to find.

I found out about their dreams and their hopes and many times the projected my understanding on a level of wishing to have a loving relatioship with me.
They told me how wonderful I was and started to dream having a woman like that in their life. They were not aware that during a cyber contact they were able to build up big illusions about themselves or what the other person was.

When you live with somebody you are responsible for what you experience and if you do not feel understood that means that you miss to go deeper or on higher levels to find out.

Chats are exciting and the keep secure distance and then they also create an intimacy you might not dare to share anymore with somebody living with you.

The question is, when have you lost to be truly honest and why?