Silly me. I was under the impression that if I wanted my child to receive religious instruction, I should take him to the church of my choosing.
Yesterday I went to my son's school. I knew there were religious books in the library. I'm not thrilled about it, but considering he isn't forced to check them out, overall, it's a non-issue. That wasn't the case yesterday. Among his "Words for December": Jesus, Mary, Joseph...you get the picture.
Now I know for a fact that there is at least one Jewish family within the school district. Everytime you drive by the major highway that comes into town, you see a 5 foot Star of David. I'd love to ask them how they feel about the word "Jesus" being a vocabulary word. For that matter, I'd love to ask the Christian leaders of the town. I want to sit down with them and say, "Is this what you want? If we need to learn to spell Jesus at school, you're doing a pisspoor job at church."
I never thought of myself as being militant on this issue. I still don't. I expect that there will be some sort of CHRISTMAS celebration. There will be a tree, and the kids will make ornaments to hang on it, and there's lots of talk about Santa and the bike they want for Christmas. And no, it won't be a "holiday tree" or an "Xmas" tree. I feel that it is a HUGE step in between using Christmas as a catch-all term for however people celebrate and meaning the actual CHRISTmas.
So what do I do? My husband spelled it out. The choices he listed are, "raise 'hell', homeschool, move, or do nothing". *sigh* I do not believe I can let this slide, but I don't know the best way to proceed. Do I ask the teacher nicely? Something tells me if you haven't considered that there may be other faiths, you don't give a damn about offending them. That will only get me outed if and when there is a lawsuit. Do I start by contacting the ACLU? My reasons for doing this are simple. Protection. If I get to hide behind the skirts of the ACLU, my family lives. If I bring the lawsuit myself, well, you've seen the news stories. I get to be a martyr, along with my entire family. Sorry, but I'm not feeling particularly martyrish today. Hell, I'm not feeling martyrish at all. Keep Christmas, just tone down the religious stuff. I must be crazy, because I thought the Supreme Courts already decided this stuff.
And to those who are upset that I'm trying to strip the "true" meaning of Christmas, let me counter with this. Jesus was not born in December at all. Some say spring, others say fall. You want to know where the December thing came from? Try Mithra, or many of the other Pagan gods who predate Jesus and have more than a few similarities. Our genetic code is practically steeped in the tradition of celebrating this time of year. It is not the celebration I am trying to remove. But if we are to go that route, then as a citizen, I get just as much right to call the tune as you do. You want Jesus in Christmas? Fine. We'll learn all about Jesus, Mary and Joseph in December, but in March we all get drunk in honor of Bacchus, and we'll drag out our prayer mats and fast every Ramadan. We'll reduce ALL the gods to nothing more than a set of bubblegum trading cards that are traded on the playground.
If removing the word Jesus from school, but not from your own home, where you are free to celebrate whatever you want, removes such a high degree of the meaning of the holiday, perhaps you should seek mental help. If one word can destroy your entire faith, you had no faith to begin with.







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