Weekend Report: Short & Sweet
This edition of my weekend report will be short and sweet. The reason for this is because this was a rather tame weekend for me. I didn't go out Friday and Sunday consisted of me working for four hours in the morning and then spending the rest of the day on the futon (a Sunday tradition).
On Saturday I took a trip out to Dirty Jerz, Hoboken to be exact. Me and my roomie went out there because one of our good friends lives there with his girlfriend. The night actually turned out to be more fun than I thought it would. Usually when we go there we usually end up drinking in their apartment and not much more. This time we actually went out bar hopping and made a night of it.
There is one thing about Saturday that I want to talk about. That's my roomie's girlfriend. They've been dating for like seven or eight months. I like this girl, she's pretty cool and I'm happy my roommate is happy. I just have one problem, she is no fun. Her idea of a fun Saturday night is either watching a movie or surfing the internet. Normally, I wouldn't care but this affects me.
It affects me because now my roomie never goes out. This wouldn't be such a problem but his girl moves in on Thursdays and doesn't leave until Monday. Before this happened my roomie used to go out and have a good time on the weekend. Now it's like he either has to convince her to out with us or he has to ask if she minds that he go out and she stay in our apartment.
The last two weekends I've been present in the room while he was asking permission and it is just uncomfortable. I never know if I should leave the room during this conversation. I know sometimes she wants to say she does mind but she doesn't want to say so with me there.
Life would be a lot easier if she would either just go out more or not hijack the weekend every weekend.
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tell Dano to grow a sack
tell Dano to grow a sack...this is making me uncomfortable all the way over here. Ask Dano if it's true that once you go black, you don't back.
Boring Roomies ruin fun
I know what it's like to have someone like that around. My click consists of me, Tubby, Dave, Pat & Pat, Carrie and a few others. Carrie and I used to chill all the time. (This is the same girl I wrote about in my "What do you consider cheating" blog). Now she's dating a guy, ironically named Wheezy. She can't go anywhere without him going to and the few times she actually DOES get away, they're calling eachother non stop. They'll sit there and argue on the phone about the stupidest things. It's embarrassing and frustrating. And I know EXACTLY what you mean about the asking permission thing. Has your buddy ever asked YOU to ask his girls permission? Carrie used to do this all the time. She'd say, "Wheezy can't tell you no. Just ask him if we can go clubbing." OR, even worse we'd BOTH have to make up these lies, like, "We're just going to go the the driving range for a while." Then we'd go to the bar.
And it was so stupid to even lie cuz we were not doing anything worng in the first place.
That is one of my hubby's finest qualities. He actually encourages me to go out. He just asks that I tell him where I wil be and when I'll be home (for safety reasons). People like my husband are rare. The thing is, he is the person that wants to sit at home 24/7. He really enjoys watching tv. That's fine. I respect that. BUT on the flip side he respects my need for fun and I get to get out of the house a few times a month.
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My roommate...
Luckily Dan (my roommate) hasn't asked me to ask permission for him. The moment that happens will be the moment we both start looking for new living arrangements. Just kidding but you get my point.
Also once Dan does get out he doesn't speak to his girl on the phone but apparently they text each other back and forth. I know this because on Sat. night before we even reached the first bar she had texted him that she wanted him to come home. The whole thing is just very uncomfortable.
ive been thinkiing about
ive been thinkiing about this one. I feel you Weezy and I saw how broken Danno was last saturday morning.
I mean from ur position there really isn't much you can do. I feel if you just start throwing out advice to him, he could get pissed off(although not likely.)
I mean I guess really the fairest thing would be for his girl to just see that going out is as much a part of his life as she is, and hopefully she could/would come to this conclussion and offer to not be over as much.
BUT..if it was you, me, danno, Uncle Jose, Champion and Pops, i would agree with champion and tell Danno to man up.
Ask Dano if it's true that
Ask Dano if it's true that once you go black, you don't back.
i missed that yesterday..that cracked me up Amarj.
Antisocial...
It's not even that she doesn't go out, sometimes she can just be downright antisocial. There have been a few occasions where I will have invited a group of our mutual friends to the crib and then when Dan comes in with his girl they'll just go in his room and close the door.
I mean we'll be talking about like 9 o'clock in the evening. I have to believe this isn't Dan's choice because I've known him for like seven years now and the Dan-o I know would never miss an opportunity to just chill.
i saw this happen @ new
i saw this happen @ new years time, when we were all watching that movie.
I was thinking maybe just didn't feel comfortable with all of us since we all have history..but she didn't actually try either.
That's rude!
They actually leave the room when company is over? That's so rude.
My girlfriend will just srgue with her man infront of everyone, which I guess is just as bad.
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Right on RC...
I'm glad you said it's rude RC. Because whenever I say it, somebody usually justs makes an excuse for her. I don't want to sound like I don't like her because she is actually pretty cool in non-social situations.
I also know that my group of friends can be pretty intimidating, being that we all have big personalities that we're not afraid to put on display (see James Champion and Drake Bobby). The thing is like Drake said she doesn't really try and that's what really upsets me.
Sometimes I get uncomfortable
Sometimes I get uncomfortable if I am around lots of people I may not know. But I TRY to get to know them.
It's one thing for her to go in the bedroom if she's sick or something, but to take your friend away is crummy.
She should at least make an effort OUT OF RESPECT FOR HER MAN to befriend you. We can't choose who our boyfriends/girlfriends friends are, but if we care for our significant others we deal with them.
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