Unconditional Love

love | relationships

Love is a really odd and random thing. It's too hard to define and everyone has a different meaning about what it means to love someone. Many people think Unconditional love no longer exists. and honestly does it?

Too often there are conditions for loving someone, and if one thing is off, someone has one flaw automatically they get tossed back to the sea so to speak. Isn't love supposed to be loving someone no matter what? Loving their good qualities, but also loving their flaws? Today we expect everything and everyone to be perfect the way we want them to be, but honestly it's never that way.

There are times when you find someone who is everything you look for and you do love their flaws and that's unconditional love. To often people lose out on love and something wonderful simply because they can't love unconditionally. Loving that much in a sense makes one vulnerable and who wants to be vulnerable right?

I know a perfect, unconditional love exists and I'm not talking about God's love, but a love from God. I've seen it in many different couples. You could see the love in their eyes as they look at each other even after 30 years or more. You can see how they act, treat and talk to each other that no matter what they will forever love that person.

There was a time when I thought that kind of love wasn't in my future, but I'm starting to think differently. I'm starting to think I may have found a love like what I thought was only in fairy tales. You know Prince charming coming to rescue Princess Auoroa (sleeping beauty) from the curse kind of love. Disney is great for unconditional love. I mean Jasmine fell in love with a man pretending to be something he wasn't, Prince Eric loved a woman who was part fish. Why should girls want to find love like that?!

Love shouldn't and isn't conditional...at least true love isn't. Don't make your love conditional...Don't make there be conditions for someone to be able to gain your love...it only complicates things.