The fear

Do you think that of relationships are formed from the fear of being lonely?
Can you really be in love with someone if you are just with them because you fear being on your own?
Do you think it is really fair on the other person if you are only with them as you can't stand the thought of living on your own?
What about people whos partners have died and they get with other people just for companionship. Is this really fair on the other person?
Can anyone truly be happy on their own?
I think that at some point in peoples lifes you have to be on your own otherwise you will never find out who you truly are and you will never be able to be fully sure of yourself in a relationship.
Why do we fear being alone? Are we ever really alone?
We fear being alone but how many other people out there are feeling alone?
I think that everyone needs someone out there to care for them and love them but one thing that you have to realise is that at some point of time you will have to be alone.
We come into the world alone and we leave it alone. Spend time getting to know yourself. Once you know yourself then start a relationship. Only start a relationship with someone that you truly love and what to be with not just anyone who will be with you. If you stay on your own until you find someone that is truly right for you then it will be fair on them and fair on you. Don't make your life miserable by getting with anyone just not to be on your own. It will be unfair on them and in the long run you will still be unhappy.

honey2506 – June 9, 2006 – 11:52am