breaking up

I was a magazine article that a woman was killed by her ex just because she broke up with him. Apparently the man could not handle it and ended up killing her. I want to say to both men and women to be careful of who you are getting involved with, before you decide to actually get serious to whomever you are involved with get to know him/her for a good while and I'm talking about knowing both the good and the bad about that person. Break-ups are hardly ever easy and it is heartbreaking. If you suspect that your partner is the dangerous and revengeful type when you get ready to break up with him or her take these precautions:

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I've written a previous post about the differences between men and women. Well one of the more interesting facts is that a mans brain does not register the sound of a female voice very well.

I tell my finace to look at while I speak one sentence, yes only one at a time, I wouldn't want to overload him. I have eye contant, I speak painly and clearly and in simple language. Not that he's stupid, it's just that he hardly ever understands the messages that I'm trying to convey to him-i think simple is best. So how is that he still doesn't understand?!? Maybe he understands he just chooses to disagree. This man was a once upon a time phscyology major, so as you might imagine, now he knows everything about it. If there's something bothering me-like the fact that I don't love him anymore- for instance, he can readily explain to me why I feel that way and why my feeling that way makes no sense.

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