Putting The Sash Back In Sashay

I don't think there's a woman alive who hasn't tried out sexy costumesat some stage. The question is, are they for you or for someone else? I had a friend who said that she just liked to know that her inner wear had pizzazz even if no one else could see it – it made her add an extra 'sash' to her sashay and gave a lot of confidence. Do you agree?