Once A Cheater. Always A Cheater?

Is it true that once a cheater or always a cheater. I know a few people that cheated, and a few of them I think are lifers. But I think there are those few who cheat, and really realize what damage they did to the person they once cared about. Why do people cheat. Are they too afraid to come to you and say I just don't love you anymore, I'm just not happy, I'm going threw something and I need help.

Who cheats more women or men. Because women do cheat too. Although I will say I know of more men that cheat then women. Why is that. As you can see Im a new blogger. So Im sure in time maybe my writing will get better. Is it worse to cheat if your married or just dating. Or is it equal. I think wheither your married or not its the same, although some guy friends I know think that its okay to cheat when your just dating because well marriage is more serious. Does that make sense. What's going to stop you from cheating when your married if you've always done it. Your all of a sudden going to stop because you have a piece of paper. Should we suppose tv shows like cheaters. Is a show for really seeking out cheaters or is it for our amusement, it is rather thrilliing, to embarrase the cheater on national television. For some reason they don't seem to like that too much. If you cheat when your other half finds out why is it that most cheaters still deny it. Do they really think were stupid.

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You aren't stupid

Pilongirl, have you ever read this book, I think it's called "You're just not that into me" or something like that. I can't think of the author's name but it got a lot of press on Oprah and different places. I bet if you google it, you can find it. I think habitual cheating has more to do with a person's feelings about themselves being transferred to you. I also believe in the one-time mistake thing, we're all human, but it sounds in this case that the guy either has a sexual disorder or just isn't that "into" your relationship. You're a comfort to him......Just my 2 cents

stupid cheaters

I agree with TLEstrogen with fact that the guy is probably just not that "into you". I believe that if two people are so into each other they will do their best to make the relationship last.

Nope

Once a cheater always a cheater is not true. I speak from personal experience. I do, however, agree with TLEstrogen that my past escapades have had much more to do with my feelings about myself than those I had for my partner...however, I can say that I look at the man I am with now and I would never dream, nor would I dare to pull any of the stunts I have in the past. alainedances is 100 percent right when she says "if two people are so into each other they will do their best to make the relationship last."

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