Oh So Sorry!

After you've been with someone for 3 f***ing years, you'd think you'd have a deep enough relationship with them to at least break up with them in person. Unbelievable!

Frankly, I think your daughter is lucky to be rid of someone who is this callous and unfeeling. But even considering how lucky she is to be rid of such a creep, I know it will hurt for a long time. Please send her all my love.

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It is so absolutely unbelievable to me that she could be so bloody callous...she claimed it was all a "mistake"...but let me tell ya...my kid is hurting so therefore so am I...But I did tell my daughter that she is NOT a victim and that if any of her friends start the "Oh poor, poor you" crap, she is to tell them that "it was a mutual understanding" kind of deal. UGH UGH UGH!!

poorly treated and I think she should tell the world that she does not deserve that kind of treatment. Mutual misunderstanding, my ass.

"Oops, I forgot to tell you that I want to break up. Sorry you had to read it on Facebook, since shit like breaking up just slips my mind. Have a lovely time in Texas, and lots of luck in your next relationship."

Now how in the hell is that possibly a mistake? Sorry to be so hateful, but it sounds like the only mistake was wasting 3 years on someone who is so devoid of humanity. Fortunately, it's a mistake that's easily remedied. Best to your daughter, and I hope she is quick to realize that she is not at fault here.

Well, at lest her girlfriend didn't take her on the Jerry Springer show! But, this is still too public a way to break up anyway. I don't like breaking up with someone ~ it's an awful, awful feeling to know that you're hurting someone you've been close to. BUT, I still suck-it-up and do it! And, after 3 years there's no good reason to let everyone else know first! Even if she'd not seen the page, her friends and her ex's friends would have seen it. Lord, I can only imagine if one of your daughter's friends had broken the news to her by asking if it was true. That would have been even worse than the way she did find out because she would have been forced to say "Um, what break up? What do you mean it's on myspace??".
They may be young and still going to make stupid mistakes, but there's no excuse for this kind of cruelty! She has beyond reason to be furious and so do you.
Please send her my love and good wishes! Her pride will be justifiably hurt for a while, but someone better is out there somewhere.

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But she is the one who broke off a 4 year relationship. Her ex just won't let her go and is making big time waves in public places. He calls her 50 times a day and beats on her door until she finally opens it. He drives around until he finds her car....the obsession has been terrible. I told him that you can't make someone love you. It is either there or it isn't. He asked me how she could fall out of love over-night. But see, the thing is....it didn't happen overnight.....it happened over a long process of verbal abuse, having her needs ignored and his selfishness. At least she told him to his face what was happening and why.

Tell your daughter that doors can be opened and closed and to close that door and move on. I know she is heart-broken now and it will take time, but things always work out for the best in the long run. She will meet someone better suited to her IF she reflects over the last three years and figures out why the relationship ended. I have a feeling that QB is a self centered person who has no regards for anyone other than herself. I imagine your daughter will be better off with someone less domineering and more sensitive to your daughter's needs. The sad thing is......it is your daughter who should have ditched the bitch long before now.

things really have changed drastically since we were young, haven't they? Facebook, email, text messaging,... classless ways to end relationships, if you ask me. I'm glad you're strong for your daughter.

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