MySpace Whores
Ok, I am fully aware that my title could and would cover an enormous amount of subjects about the less than scrupulous men and women that have profiles on said website....but I can't be bothered to write about more than one.
So here is my story. My husband is a musician and has a profile set up on MySpace. I set it up for him, invited friends, and pretty much manage his account since he works a very long work week and has no time to spend on there unless I tell him he has an important message or request to answer. I have my own profile set up to keep in touch with friends that I have met during my traveling days.
Well....as of about three months ago I started noticing that one girl in particular has been messaging and commenting on my husbands site more than I find savory. Her pictures and messages also leave a lot to be desired, or not, depending on who you are...know what I mean? The funny thing is that this girl has no idea that I am the one who reads and sees her posts, and most often delete them. I've told my husband about this girl, who unfortunately lives locally and attends his shows regularly, and he has laughed it off. Men often don't quite understand the games women play.....He's read some of her posts and thinks they are stupid at best. And while I have absolute trust inthe man, I hate that this wench is so persistant and thinks she even has a chance. I would place her in the catergory of MySpace whores without hesitation.
A married man, especially a married man who has a child and another on the way, is off limits no matter who you are. To try to lure such a man away from his family is sad in the least. I've never understood the attraction some women have towards married or otherwise taken men, but this loser must think that she is some hot chick, or that now that I am knocked up my husband will prefer her insipidness and cellulite ridden thighs to my pregnant belly. Dream on honey. Ain't gonna happen.
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Whoa! Wait a minute there missy!
Hey! Go easy on those of us with cellulite, would ya? ;)
Apart from that, I agree with you. I got a friend request the other day that involved a woman with very large store-bought breasts. She was wearing a tiny little tshirt that read, "Got milk?" Ha. Freakin' funny. So I went to check out her profile in the hopes that there was something redeeming about this human being, and if there is, they haven't included it in their Myspace page. I rarely reject people. I just fail to approve them and hope they go away, but I made an exception for her.
But I think you've inspired my next blog! YAY!
i'm not immune to the big C!
LOL! i just had to pick one thing and not run the gammut of all the things i could've with this girl....ooooo, brings out the cat in me! :-)
and i cannot believe a woman would wear a t-shirt that says that! ROFL! that is so gross yet oddly hilarious. welll, it takes guts to pull that one off! i did see a girl with obnoxiously large silly-cones who was wearing a tank top that said "If Only These Were Brains." i had to appreciate the self-deprecating humor behind that one!
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HA!!!! I LOVE that one!
HA!!!! I LOVE that one! See now I have a goal. I'm gonna get down to a size 0 just so I can wear a shirt like that.
The attraction of the "taken one"
Robert Heinlein, in Time Enough for Love, wrote this phenomenon into his story. In one of the space colonies written into the story, the pregnant woman was very much sought after, 'cause, well, she could get pregnant.
I can see that a "taken one", either side of the gender divide, would be attractive to a single, especially one with less than a full quotient of self-esteem. Hey, (s)he was good enough for him/her, maybe (s)he will give me what I need. And I'm better than him/her anyway.
And yes I've felt it. A gal in someone's arms, I swear, is twice as alluring as the same gal alone. Which is how I leave her. The thing about a triangle, all the points are sharp. Ouch.
well put OC
i see exactly what you are saying & you are spot on.
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Excellent "point" Sorry, I
Excellent "point" Sorry, I couldn't resist.
I think beyond the being "good enough" it's also that the other person can maintain a relationship. If they haven't been treated so well in past relationships, this might be attractive.
Myspace Interloper sees this guy who is in a nice steady relationship with Pregnant Wife. And because Interloper knows she is smokin' hot and the guy isn't cheating on Wife with her, he's a great guy. Now all Interloper needs to do is get husband to leave Wife, and he'll be just as faithful to Interloper.
And yeah, I've had friends of mine admit as much to me. That's when I promptly cyber-smacked them and told them to quit being trollops.
smokin hot
interloper is smokin hot in her alternate reality. ;-)
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lol!
Eh, I bet Interloper is pretty certain she's hot in THIS reality. Now whether she is or not- totally different matter. She could be like a girl I saw once at Chuck E. Cheese's. She was certain she was the prettiest girl in the room. I'll spare you the details because I don't want the morning sickness to overwhelm you, but it was awful. Had to give her props for self-confidence though.
intiricate.....LMFAO!
i am gonna bet that your girl from chuck e. cheese is a close runner up to my myspace jezebel......and thanks for sparing me the details. i just had some split pea soup & a grilled cheese for dinner & would have hated to have lost that. buying a new keyboard right now would really put me in the poorhouse. :-P
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One fast answer to Interloper
If (s)he'll leave the partner for you, what's stopping him/her from leaving you for someone else? Hmmm?
Complex problems have simple, easy to understand answers. - H. L. Mencken.
Complex problems have simple, easy to understand, wrong answers. - Grossman's Misquote of H. L. Mencken
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That's exactly why I gave
That's exactly why I gave them the big cyber-smackdown.
exactly!!!
history will always repeat itself.....man leaves wife for other woman......man will later leave other woman for yet another.....revolving doors.
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perhaps
Perhaps women who go after "taken" men do so because they believe that luring him away from someone else proves something about their own attractiveness and sexual prowess. They aren't able to see that a man who cheats or leaves will do it again, because it's not about HIM, it's about HER and her overall amazingness. It could almost be a game to her.
That's my pop psychology, made up just now on the spot.
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very insightful!
and i totally agree.....i'm sure it is totally a game to her. a competition if you will. oh well....too bad for her she is LOSING! LOLOLLOL!
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You should do a victory dance
In front of her :)
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