More nonsense from hyper boy

So, the other day I was going to be leaving work. I had chimed into some conversation with the guy and this other secretary at work. And he's like "work on those interrogatories" something else like, pay attention to what you're doing over there.

He's been saying that off and on "any" time I chime into a conversation that is within 10 feet of me.

It gives you the feeling of "just sit there like a good little puppet and shut the fuck up." I totally swear.

Include his demeanor and overall tone... and there you have it. I've been looking at him like, whateva' not a mean look just a pfft... you're silly look.

So he's like "those have to be finished before you leave"... okay well I'll just cut and paste what I know to be standard answers and put them here. Not a problem, and they are modified to each particular case. Also, not a problem. So I said, it's okay I'm putting the rest in here... So... I forget what happened that he had to come over there by me, but instead of coming up on the other side of the desk, he comes up behind me ... so, I'm literally blocked in... Now, I should say, that initially I didnt' mind. But I'm clostrophobic as it is and there is ALSO A THING such as personal space to consider. He was only like 6/12 inches behind me as he pointed to the screen at "whatever" ... now he starts hitting me with questions.

You can't do that! I calmly say that you can, that these are standard answers and you change the content. He's not understanding what I'm saying... so he barks it over at me asking why I'm using THAT case instead of another like HE TOLD ME TO ... I say because it's a different type of case, and the same thing wouldn't apply so I ... He cuts me off... Just answer the question!

Now... he is still in my space, right behind my chair... and I'm starting to feel pretty boxed in there. He doens't budge. Fortunately AND I WANT TO INCLUDE HE SHOULDN'T HAVE COME UP BEHIND ME ANYWAY AND BEE IN MY SPACE LIKE THAT ...the son of a bitch... So, I shift backwards into a bigger section, it's out of having him directly behind me ... and I turn and look at him.

He's like you can't even answer a simple question! At this point my mind is completely confused. He shifted gears THREE TIMES in the way he asked it ... and kept cutting me off and cutting me off and changing the question that muther fucker... ugh... and I ... suck it up why? Because for now I need the money that's why. So I ask him to repeat the question. And I try to answer him again... I assume he understands but he doesn't. Becuase later he was bitching about it again. fuker. So he gets out of my space and I leave.

Mind you, I also caught something that was wrong in one of the files and he tells me, basically, not to do my job... don't read the file ... and why not? That's MY JOB YOU MORON... so course I do'nt say that... he's like don't read it just to the work. Asshole, I can't do the work if I don't read it. Moron boy. Then later he's like oh we found something out here... He's lying ... I know it. So does he.

Every single day, not a single day goes by where he doesn't make a comment about how bad my work is, how this that or the other thing better get done, but only do what he tells me to do... if htat were the case NOTHING would get done because he's got no fucking clue what's in his own office. Yet he says he knows everything ... your ass he knows everything... it's always someone else's fault. Not his... if you do it this way, he wants it done that way, if you do it that way, he says why did you do that... he doesn't let you answer his questions because lord knows he's got YOUR answer right there on the tip of his tongue.

I tell ya... the urge to slug that man is never too far out of my reach. I started thinking, if it got that bad wouldn't it be fun to call the police and file a complaint against the guy. Yup... that's right.

And I'll tell you something else, people like to talk. They tell me all kinds of things about him. Including "good luck" working with him, Or "I know he's difficult with his secretary's... oh yah... I hear it all the time ...

He barks at you, he has nothing nice to say. And honestly I don't need him to say any nice thing to me at all. I just want him to answer my questions when I ask him a question. It's for HIS benefit.

I have mail on my desk right now that is ... holy crap, almost three weeks old. So what he does, and this is a head game ... he goes and has the other girl there open the mail and goes through it with her. So, I ask him when I see him doing it to look at mine... he says "don't worry about it" just keep working on (whatever it is I'm doing) ... course not that don't worry about it is something that later he'll say "well YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD ME" well how many fucking times do I have to try to grab an adults attention in order to get HIS WORK done? I ask all the time ... the other person there, is like... I need you to sit down etc., and god bless 'r because she's so stressed out it's not even funny.

I am consistent in my own behaviors. All the time, as often as possible ... I think this surprises this guy... he likes to test you...

One day, I was leaving and he says, Yah not like you got any work done this week... I left. Fuck you... Oh, waht I'm saying is that I'm consistent in my own behavior 1. because fuck him I'm not going to be buried like a little kid because control freak boy seems hell bent on making me look small... and 2. I have no intention of letting this bastard get the better of me.

Him getting in my space like that was highly inappropriate.

THEN the other thing he does is if he's working with the other person at their desk, and I include myself in the converstaion... it's like "OH you gotta lotta time on your hands if your talking" ... and I don't mean that he just says this once in a while either.

It's a head game. He does it intentionally to shut me out. Trust me. I've seen this before. He did it with the other woman that was there. He fired her. He berated that woman like you would not believe. OH MY GOD... then he'd come over by my desk like ... we were all buddy buddy. First I thought it was just a personality conflict. Now I see very clearly he's just a prick.

So respected, but everybody around him knows what he's all about. And they've all told me so too. His behavior is not acceptable... not even a little bit. I could turn into a bitter bitchy secretary like I've heard other women on the phone but ... that's not who I am, and I have no intention of letting this boy fuck with me either. Let him keep on talking... and I'll keep on writing. He'll make his own bed.