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Is Christianity In Trouble?

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I'm not a believer by any means, but I have my reasons for it. And, it seems that today's youths may be following somewhat in my footsteps, but for much different reasons, according to this news story.

According to the story, more and more young people see Christianity more for it's negative stance on many positions than its positives. For instance, according to the story, the vast majority of non-Christians — 91 percent — said Christianity had an anti-gay image, followed by 87 percent who said it was judgmental and 85 percent who said it was hypocritical. Similar views were held by smaller percentages of the active churchgoers, but the faith still did not fare well: 80 percent agreed with the anti-gay label, 52 percent said Christianity is judgmental, and 47 percent declared it hypocritical.

Now, to be fair, it was a relatively small sample, around 860 people or so, but that's usually the size of samples the other major polls use. It's not a good sign that those who consider themselves as active church goers actually agree that Christianity seems to be going the wrong way. The one statistic I didn't give is that one in four believe that modern Christianity is nothing like how Jesus would have wanted it to be.

Well,... hmmm,... I'm really not sure what to say at this point. Guess I'll let the story speak for itself.

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lecter's picture

Honestly

Catfish,

What are your views about the gay movement? Will you be accept if your son comes and ask if you would approve of his gay relationship?

What about the non Christians? How about the Muslims? Have a look at the Middle East issue and see how critical and judgmental they are. (No offense here.)

All I can say that in all Christianity is never an enforced issue. Never dogmatic and certainly not a fanatic kind of religion. As a matter of fact, it is never a religion too.

Care to disagree?

Catfish's picture

Well Lecter,...

I don't have any kids, so I can't answer that one. I do have many gay friends and relatives, though, and it's never been any kind of deal to me; probably helps that I was a music major, and got to know a bunch of gay people over my life.

I would bet that, if this same group was allowed to take a poll in other countries about their religions, one would find the same sort of thing occurring. Because, when all is said and done, much of the trouble in the world seems to come from those few who keep trying to tell the many that, morally, based on their particular interpretation of whatever religious text they're coming from, they have to get into the lives of everyone else, instead of allowing people to live as they want to.

So, this isn't necessarily a Christian problem. However, it's the one the news story was talking about, so I had to go with it. Course, I will disagree with your assertion that Christianity isn't a religion; if it's not a religion, what is it, since very researched historical record on Christianity specifically refers to it as such, far as I know?

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Lecter are you a homophobe? Hmmm?

Sassys

Do you even know what that means? Trust me when I tell you that the "gays" are not out to taint your religion, nor are they out to "get you". When people say "What would Jesus do?" Do you honestly believe he would shun the gay community? It's hypocritical at best.

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I think all religion is in a state of transition, Catfish.

I think we are going to see the various sects go to very great extremes in one direction before they start turning back in the other direction. But I think this will eventually be a transition that turns religion back into something that enriches people's lives instead of limiting them.

I think that the attitudes of younger people will force the older religious leaders to make changes in order for the religion to survive. Remember when the Catholic church absolutely forbade any kind of birth control except abstinence? They had to change with the times.

Of course, I don't see this happening any time soon. I figure I'll be long dead by the time anything positive happens in any of the religions of the world. But then, I'm not a Christian or a Muslim or a Jew, etc., etc., even though I'm not an atheist.

And Lecter, I totally disagree. Christianity is often a forced issue - much more often with our current administration, in fact. Christianity is absolutely dogmatic and frequently fanatical. Are you familiar with "speaking in tongues" or handling snakes or boycotting Disney because they employ gays?

And what???? Christianity is most definitely a religion. From Mirriam-Webster Online;

Main Entry: re·li·gion
Pronunciation: \ri-ˈli-jən\
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English religioun, from Anglo-French religiun, Latin religion-, religio supernatural constraint, sanction, religious practice, perhaps from religare to restrain, tie back — more at rely
Date: 13th century
1 a: the state of a religious b (1): the service and worship of God or the supernatural (2): commitment or devotion to religious faith or observance
2: a personal set or institutionalized system of religious attitudes, beliefs, and practices
3archaic : scrupulous conformity : conscientiousness
4: a cause, principle, or system of beliefs held to with ardor and faith

That's m-w.com. I suggest you make use of it in the future.

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The thing that caused the

The thing that caused the most problems, in my opinion, is when Christianity became politicized. Falwell may have thought he was doing the Lord's work, but all he did is bring about a turn against Christianity that will play out over the next decade or more.

Let me explain myself better. I turned away from Christianity before it really became a political force. With that, people tell me that I'm not a good Christian, and I shrug my shoulders and give some smartass reply such as, "Yeah, thanks." But when it became politicized and the word Republican became synonymous with religion, there was a turning point. Soon, with a Republican Presidency and Congress, not only was I not a good Christian (which I could live with since that label didn't apply to me), but I was not a good citizen. Huh?? As far as I knew, I put my hand over my heart at the pledge, I paid my taxes WITHOUT cheating, I stopped at stop signs and drove within the speed limit, and I even knew all four verses of "The Star Spangled Banner". It wasn't enough that I wasn't having an abortion or abstaining from sex so that I didn't need an abortion. Suddenly, I was a bad citizen because I didn't hate people who did have one. Now, the government in charge took all of the moral thoughts that are supposed to be governed by your own personal actions and whatever God you believe in, and said that it was part of your being a good Ahhh-merkin (look up the word merkin if you aren't familiar. You'll get a laugh).

And with a two party system, it's fatal. It's saying that this is the party in charge, and stray from them on one relatively minor issue, and you're completely worthless.

And not that I was asked, but I have children and I don't give a damn if they tell me they are gay. In fact, I'm very liable to respond, "Good for you? What? Are you waiting for me to kick you out or something?? Hell no, let's go shoe shopping to celebrate. Call your boyfriend. He can come too." :D

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Damn, IG, wish I'd said that. Right ON, woman!

BTW, merkin is now my favorite name for the idiots of the world. Instead of "you dickhead" it's now "you merkin." LOLOL!!!!

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Intricate Girl I too love this answer!!

Sassys

Especially because my daughter IS gay, and when she came out to me my exact words to her were "I will always love you no matter whom you choose to sleep with" She is like me in the sense that we are both spiritual rather than "Christian"....What drives me crazy is the automatic threat of "If you don't do it our way, you will go straight to hell"...hmmm, hell hath no fury like a Christian scorned, me thinks:)

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ROFL!

PW, ROFLMAO! Merkin is an oddity. I've known what it is for a long time now, but only recently rediscovered it. I'm really into Tool right now, and the lead singer started a vineyard named Merkin. I read it and sprayed Diet Coke all over my monitor, because I just can't reconcile that with being the name of a wine producing vineyard. Hell of a logo though. :D

As far as insults go, I think it could become a classic. Until it really breaks through in popularity, I'm using it in the same way I did above. Standing in the grocery store checkout line, softly singing, "Ah'm prowd tuh beee en uh merkin..."

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It works, IG. And it fits!

Before you enlightend me, I would have sung "Ah'm prowd tuh beee uh dickhead..." But merkin works sooooo much better. Once more, with feeling....'Ah'm prowd tuh beeee.....' Everybody, sing!

LMAO!!!!

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Okay y'all, I'm missing it,...

Merkin? What's this?

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LOL, Catfish! Here you go...

merkin. (n.d.). Online Etymology Dictionary. Retrieved October 17, 2007, from Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/merkin

"female pudenda," 1535, apparently a variant of malkin (q.v.) in its sense of "mop." Meaning "artificial vagina or 'counterfeit hair for a woman's privy parts' " is attested from 1617. According to "The Oxford Companion to the Body," the custom of wearing merkins dates from c.1450, was associated with prostitutes, and was to disguise either pubic hair shaved off to exterminate body lice or evidence of venereal disease.

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Catfish's picture

Oh my, PW,...

my mouth is gaping wide open!

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See why it makes such a great put-down, Catfish?

Soooooo much better than dickwad. LOL!!!!

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LOLOLOLO PW!!!

Sassys

You're workin the Merkin:):)

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Ha!Ha!Ha!!!! Sassys!

She's a poet
She knows it
Don't need to merkin to show it!

LMAO!!

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ModelMom's picture

lolololol!

merkin! ha!!!!!! love it!!!!!

as for christianity...it is too bad that fundamentalist/bible belt variety christianity is the only thing a lot of young people have heard about and therefore judge all other christians by. i know plenty of other christian denominations that are tolerant and loving. they just keep to themselves and therefore dont make the 6 oclock news for banning gay marriage and bombing abortion clinics.

i grew up christian, with a catholic dad and a christian scientist mom, went to episcopal and catholic schools, became enamored with buddhism, now only consider myself spiritual rather than religious......and to be honest, in all my life wasnt exposed to religous resentment towards homosexuals, etc.

then you've got he more exotic, snake biting , speaking in tongues variety....but dont get me started on that! LOL!

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Thing is, ModelMom,...

those are the folks who end up on TV, doing all that yelling and stuff, and driving everyone crazy. That, plus, you never know when it's coming, but suddenly someone who you know considers themselves somewhat religious makes a statement that utterly shocks you, then they try to back it up by saying "that's my religious belief"; always makes me wonder if they actually believe that, or if that's just the crutch they use for intolerance in general.

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the intolerance crutch

oh i know that one well! LOL! it has always amazed me how quickly people will say "oh that's against my religion" or "its the religion i was brought up in...yadda yadda". in which case i always want to ask if they ever tried thinking on their own or making their own decisions on things rather than as a part of a religious collective.

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Good point, Modelmom,...

as some might say, the "sheep" factor, believing and going along with the program because it's easier than ever questioning anything. But I'm not going to beat anyone up on this is they're truly happy, and not being intolerant against anyone else. It's when things aren't going well for them and the best they can do is find fault with others that I have problems.

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And therin lies the difficulty.

Evangelical Christians believe that it is their duty to spread religion. I mean, it's a big part of their religion. So of course they feel the need to spread it, whether through politics, knocking on doors, or what have you. And I'm sure they genuinely believe it. But it also puts a really extreme version out there as the visible face of the religion.

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It's interesting you say this, IntricateGirl,...

because, in a way, it leads directly to my new post, which is coming up next.

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Christianity

Catfish and Pussy Willow

I have a more simplistic defination for religion and I wonder if you will all agree with me. Religion has always been man (sorry no discrimination here)seeking after God. But if you look at Christianity closely in a simple way it is just the opposite. From the old testament to the new testament and right till now it has always been God seeking after us.

In case I am wrong but I am very definite that the Christian church does not have anything against the lowlys, gays, lesbians, and even prostitutes. How they live their lives will be up to them, certainly not for us to say. However, at present they seem to be rejected by the majority and it isn't just from the Christian corner. Homosexuality in general is not widely acceptable be it from the religious but from the social stand point as well. So an article on the fallacies on Christianity is not a really objective fair view.

Intricate Girl

I am really sorry that your community has turned out to be "too political" for your liking but I don't think you should blame other Christian's failure for your decision to drop your faith. Yes, you may be spiritually and legally abiding but that is nothing to do with your own accountability to God. And you would certainly know by now that salvation isn't from your own doing and contribution to the church and/or society. I am sure you would be able to find another church if you really want to. What others want to do with their lives definitely won't be our business, but it is really what you really want with God, right? Quote me if I am wrong.

In conclusion, no one is ever perfect and that certainly includes me. We all have our own fallacies and that is who and what we are. Aren't non Christians equally critical to social abnormalities? Yes, the gays may feel that the Christian corner is being too critical and judgemental.....But they had failed to say that they were being accepted into the church in the first place. And I dare add that they were never treated as society's outcast from a true church, it is just that they are being discouraged from continuing with their lifestyle which has social and medical implications. Further I dare add, certainly not in the eyes of God from Jesus stand point!!

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Actually Lecter,...

you're incorrect on some points. One, homosexuals are accepted by almost 60% of the population, based on surveys. Second, are you from America? I ask that because I have no idea what "lowlys" are, so I'm wondering if that's a foreign phrase of some type. Three, of course the church, overall, has problems with gays, lesbians, and prostitutes; it's never embraced any of these, and even tried to turn Mary Magdalene into a prostitute, failing of course. In case you are wrong,... is there really a question here?

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Lecter,

You have completely misread what I wrote. I did not leave because they became too political. And I never once said that I blame Christians for anything. I was responding, the same as you were. In my opinion, people are turning away form Christianity because of social factors more than religious ones. Also, yes, I'm sure I could find a different church if such a thing interested me. It doesn't.

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The Real Thing

A Rolex watch is one of the finest timepieces made. Many people would jump at the opportunity to own one. That’s why my friends who recently traveled abroad thought it would be fun to pick up a few of them to give to their children as souvenirs.

Souvenirs? Yes. You see, these watches were "knockoffs"—imitations of the real thing easily passed off to tourists at ridiculously cheap prices. The ones they chose for their family members did have a slight difference from the ones you would buy at a fine jewelry store—the name on these watches was spelled R-O-L-E-X-X.

Few things of value are inexpensive. Fewer still are free. But salvation—the most important gift of all—is free. Unlike the imitation Rolex, salvation is of infinite value. Yet it is free because, as one hymn reminds us, "Jesus paid it all." No one can earn salvation (Eph. 2:8-9). We need only believe and receive the gift of eternal life that God offers (Rom. 6:23).

It’s a paradoxical truth that while salvation is free, its cost was great. Oswald Chambers wrote, "Forgiveness, which is so easy for us to accept, cost the agony at Calvary."

Anyone who teaches something else is simply pushing a "knockoff" of the real thing.

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And this has,...

what to do with the original topic? For what it's worth, one could suppose that it's a good thing you're sticking with it, as someone who doesn't believe it's a religion, but just how great was the cost, especially since, it's acknowledged, that Christianity was actually started by St. Paul, over 100 years after the main event, so to speak? At least he had a fighting chance, not like getting shot down by an assassin's bullet.

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I wondered this myself

And I almost said as much. Then I remembered all the good my previous words did and decided not to bother. With our mortal souls in danger, understanding has gone out the window. And dammit, I LOVE when someone else proves my point for me. ;)

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Well IntricateGirl,...

glad I could accommodate!

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A Catholic, non-Christian, here

This is something I don't usually share since it's such a important thing to each individual. But, I'm not a Christian ~ as in, I don't believe in Christ as the lord and saviour. I remain Catholic because I - well, I'm not in a big hurry to find something new. I'm open to Judaism, but not enough to actually pursue converting ~ YET. (I'm sure there are some of you nodding your head and thinking a lot of stuff makes more sense now, huh???)
So, for me, I see this article as a great piece! We need to look at the whole of Christianity and ask questions! I'm not saying I want everyone to stop believing like I have. Not at all. But, we need to look at the sins of the past, the sins of the present and make changes. Anyone heard of the group - Christains of Zion? (er, I think that's what they're called!) On the surface they sound great. A bunch of Christians working toward the future of Israel. Until, that is, you look a little deeper and see that it's all about politics! And worse! Trying to bring about the "end of days"! Yep, they're gonna love the Jews until the rapture ~ then the lot of them will fry in hell while they ascend to heaven! Ya, nice group!
And, even as a Catholic, I was told for years as a kid that I wasn't a true Christian! Why? Because true Christians don't follow pagean-like rituals! Er, excuse me????
Ah, I give up! I once posted that we should dismantle all organized religion! Of course, that could never happen. But, I would like to see a return to the "old" and attention being put on our own doings and not the doings of others. Hell, I still celebrate Christmas! Though, the others ~ including Easter ~ go unaknowlaged in my home. I no longer fast or give up anything for Lent. But, everyone else can do as they like! Just, love thy neighbor ~ don't rape, kill or mame ~ don't covet ~ don't lie ~ don't steal ~ honor your elders ~ love ALL mankind! Funny, how NONE of that is actively practiced by most churches!

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Interesting take, Spooky,...

because I've heard more people who profess to be Christian slam Catholics for the very thing you're saying, and for someone like me it just smacks of hypocrisy, as you can imagine.

In college, I actually did examine some other religions, to see if there was something for me, and I came away disillusioned by the dichotomy between what one read, then what one saw as to how folks acted. I can't say I was overly shocked or disappointed in the long run, but I still thought it was a major shame.

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Sorry for the delayed response, catfish

That's one of the reasons I've not made the effort to convert to anything! It seems that no religion follows their own teachings anymore. And it's really sad. Now more people need something to believe in or have faith in. Growing up Catholic I was taught that faith is everything. It's what seperated us from them. And, then to be told that I'm not a true Chrsitian??? It frustrated me as a kid, angered me as an adult, and now......guess I'm not! LOL

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If Christianity is in trouble...

then Islam is in deep, deep shit!!!

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