say so.

Yes, how funny can that be, but I keep on having dreams, about my wife having a very active sex life, with out me.

My last dream, or nightmare, was last night, and it was about her sleeping around with a college professor. She isn't in school again, but is going over someones house to practice singing, who happens to be a college professor.

Since I met him, he was in his 40's, and overweight, but now he has lost weight, and tries to look better. Don't know if that could be a mid life crisis he is going through, or he is doing it for my wife.

This could also be nightmares I'm having, cause of the hidden work I do from my wife.

I have these terrible dreams about stuff like this all the time. I'm scared to lose my wife, and therefore, I'm putting myself through these feelings, which most I know are not true.

I love my wife, and trust her, yet I keep having these stupid dreams.

My mother used to sleep around on my father, from when I was a 3 year old, so that could be another reason why I'm feeling this in my marriage.

Moreover, our sex life has been up and down, for several years. We mostly go several weeks without sex, cause we are too busy, or she is not in the mood. I've been told that a woman's sex drive grows at the age of 30, and she is 31, so I'm still waiting.