Ask your teenage kids to be patient.See if you can get them to buy time and secure their own future by asking them to wait till they are adults.This way they can judge for themselves if their relationship stands the test of time.

Draw their attention to the fact that for a relationship to stand the test of time,both partners need to adjust to the lifestyles of each other.Point out this essential fact to them.

Keep lines of communication open,as lack of it can lead to misconceptions.Encourage your child to be frank and clear about the issue,however trivial it may seem.

Stress on the importance of financial independence,which is most important in the context of relationships.

Encourage and cultivate independent decision-making skills.It will help them to take a balanced stand.