Well me and my husband was outside today fixing on my car and a white truck passed by and he waved at this guy and the guy waved and had a grin on his face, all of a sudden he said" That dirty bastard! and i said why did you say that to that man? and he said guess ,and i said who? he said that was my father. He was wondering how did he find out where we lived.The man passed by, waved and never stoped. He has never seen his grankids and isn't interested in his son or grandkids. Why would he get my husbands mother pregnant and then left her? The man is a low life and never been in my husbands life. He calls himself a christian? A Godly person wouldn't do this to his son. The man refuses to have a relationship, but my husband still hold on to hope. I tell him to give up that the man act like he doesn't care at all. It make me depressed to see my husband depressed over the ignorant so called father. I see the hurt in his eyes whenhe come home and tell me he saw his father and the man didn't give him the time or day. I say if a father doen't want to know you just stop trying to get his attention and something will happen in his life to change his mind.I just don't know why some fathers are like that. Kids just want there love and they didn't asked to be born in this world.I just hope on day the man come to his senses.