Inside Out

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A Box of Klenex, A Baby Daddy and Nine Months

life | relationships | sex | Women

I know it will never stop happening. But love, or the illusion of love and something heart felt are more than often confused with pure lust and the need to "get it on". Too many woman, girls - females on a whole have fallen into this trap and had their occasional flings - we are ALL emotional creatures. But ladies please if a man does not want to commit and that's what you are looking for please leave.

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Rights or Wrongs of Sex

marriage | protection | relationships | Religion | sex

Sex has been around since Adam and Eve (that's if YOU believe in them anyways). It's readily available in magazines, the internet and the most famous form of advertisement - word-of-mouth. However, some things good or bad just can't exsist without an adverse effect. That's why it is lamented that we should learn to abstain until a responsible relationship such as a marriage.

What about those people who just cannot control their compulsive desire to have sex? I see mental torture in their future! I do believe that it is the right thing to abstain - but then again it's just my opinion. I have witnessed alot of friends and aquaintances who chose to indulge in sex rather than to abstain. It's really sad seeing a young girl trying to finish school and she has to worry about another child - when she herself is a child. Then to look at a sixteen year old boy wishing that child wasn't his. It's all sad to think about but these things do happen. The simple yet undone solution? Abstain .

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Teen Marriage and The Made-Up Numbers

love | marriage | numbers | relationships | teen | views | weddings

I recently got into a relationship with someone who has been "checking" me (as we say in the Caribbean). We knew each other for a good while and the friendship blossomed into a loving relationship. But guess what? We are both teens, and we both value marriage. He always says that he will marry me when we get a bit older which by the way would put me at 19 and him at 20.

Yes, I can see the shocked faces and raised eye-brows. You might be thinking marriage is a big commitment. It might not work. You haven't experienced life ... and the thoughts go on.I can assure you, we are both aware of all the above.

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Welcome To Me

Hi everyone. With so many blogs on the rise we all try to be much different from the other. Some blog about hobbies and some deep souls, about their lives. I will try and attempt both. Like everyone, I have a story to tell - we all do. My name I will not give away, because my identity is all that I have thta's mine to keep.

I am a South American Girl and now reside in the Caribbean. Yes, the sunny, tranquil, blue skied Caribbean. I love life but not eveything that happens in it. Some part of me still lies in the past, but that's another story.

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