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The woman who was there told me about this one lady who he was abusive to, and she got into a fight with him and walked out. That's when I got hired. He told me during that phone call that he was going to hire a young girl and I would be helping her. More on that another time.

So, the other day I was going to be leaving work. I had chimed into some conversation with the guy and this other secretary at work. And he's like "work on those interrogatories" something else like, pay attention to what you're doing over there.

There was a bunch of other stuff here but I deleted it. I'm either going to ask the person what was up or keep it where it belongs. On them. It wasn't me... it was them. I've been lucky enough to know that so far... you know, when it's me or them. So that's really a good thing.

A friend of mine told me to list bad behaviors as they come up at work.

So, that's what I'm going to do. There will be some cursing in this post because I can't tell him to go fuck off. I need the check and I have children to raise. So, I'll vent here... but I won't be there for long. I've been looking else where.

http://trainingpd.suite101.com/article.cfm/self_awareness_at_work

I have a boss who is ... lets say ... we're not a good match. And I found this article above, thought it would help others out. :)

So... after all the writing and talking that I did... I stayed at my friends and ... the one I've been babbling about, aaaand we just hung out. I thought, this is cool. I wasn't really sure what to do.

Now, I'm not a connosiour (sp?) about sex but I know a few things I've picked up over the years.

In sifting through my life and this guys life to see if it's worth making such a fuss about, I thought about the sex. I'd thought it was good and fun but ... and I'm not putting him down in any way ... because I've been confused about the entire situation.

Interestingly enough I've allowed myself to get sucked into a situation that I'm not sure I want to be in.

So I'm thinking about what has backslid already in my life because of it. And I tell you it's been over a period of time but it seems to be hitting awfully fast.

Well I had a huge vent here about my daughter. But after all is said and done, she's a good girl. So, it had to go :)

Well, lets see tomorrow I'll be going to get my hair colored so I'm all shinny for my meeting with the job recruiter at 2:30. So I restructured my day tomorrow so that I can go for my hair at 12:30 and then see the recruiter at 2:30. Yah it takes a while to get your hair foiled, but I'm worth it :)

So a while back I'd spent 6 months chosing a job, and they let me go saying I didn't know enough. Ain't that sumpin? My day job is a legal assistant. So that was a tough hit but I have to say that I've been happy to have a break now that I've caught up from the hit of losing 2 weeks pay when they let me go.

If you'd never learned any different ways to meet and date someone, then how would you know to change what you're doing?

Take me for instance, in any realtionship that I can think up, it went pretty much like this, meet, talk all the time, they'd call me I'd call them and then we were boyfriend girlfriend.

So, I don't think I forgot any of the kissing bandits :) .... so, lets get to Chuckles...

Oh, crap, there was the guy I worked for at the autobody shop, he was older and he "would" have tried something but that didn't happen. We were in my car one night, I forget even why and he was doing that whole subtle pass thing. But, nothing happened there at all... I again, didn't know how to deal with that situation. But the good news is that nothing major happened there at all.

So, if you're reading the post below this one there's a history there of many kissy face incidents over the years and as I type this I"m sure I may very well remember more of them.

The thing was, I can remember wondering why these guys never stuck around.

I'm writing this because I think, if there are some young girls on here or older women, perhaps still making the same mistakes in their relatinoships it may be helpful.

In highschool, I was a plain Jane. My mom had died in a car crash at 12. Not that I think she would have been ooberly helpful in the dating arena, she was kinda mean. Not to me but, I don't know what my brother and sister did to deserve what they got though. yeesh.