I know it will never stop happening. But love, or the illusion of love and something heart felt are more than often confused with pure lust and the need to "get it on". Too many woman, girls - females on a whole have fallen into this trap and had their occasional flings - we are ALL emotional creatures. But ladies please if a man does not want to commit and that's what you are looking for please leave.

This particular female, lets give her a name to add a touch of human element, Claudia got herself into the same hell hole - the "flings/flingers" club. Denver, (not that I wish to give him human attributes) was attractive enough and obviously she was attracted to him. Denver clearly stated that he was not looking for a serious, committed relationship he was a "flings casanova". But like some females she thought that she could be Mother Theresa and change him. Lust was lost in love and the earth's gravitational pull could not get her head out of the clouds. I'm not saying that guys are so difficult that we can't help them change for the better. But, please one warning sign is the lack of commitment. You're just going to be his booty call and help him add to his repertoire of successful flings.

I know your wondering what happened to Claudia and Denver, I see you scratching your head thinking, am I right? After dating or in their case a couple of booty calls later, the thing that usually happens when people have sex happened, yes, procreation. It happens, people get pregnant because of these meaningless relationships, um I meant flings. This is not "Sex and the City" in which Carrie finds some sort of self discovery after her many flings, this is real life darlings.

Claudia has to decide now whether to keep the child or do the abominable - have an abortion. By the way an abortion is the killing of an innocent child who doesn't even get a chance to see his mommy and what life has to offer, just in case you didn't know. My point which is valid to me because it's my opinion is that we women should not just be some man's call girl. Let him commit or let him be gone. Care for yourself don't be like Claudia and other people who mistook love for lust and wanted to be Mother Theresa incarnate. Start paying your penance for those flings now! Well, that's if you want to.

If you were Claudia what would you do?